The post that I’m going to write is dedicated to a brave little girl, her beloved mother and her family.
Few days back, there’s a huge picture printed on the front page of the newspaper. A 7 years old disabled child named Ooi Zhao Qian.
A little girl who was born with no arms, as well as having deformities in both legs, spinal cord and the general bone structure. Things that grasped my attention are the endless LOVE shown from her mother and family.
Having a child is not as simple as what most people would have thought. There are a lot of things to plan, to arrange and to carry out. It is not an easy task to have a child or children. And it will definitely be tougher to have a disabled child, whether physically or mentally disabled.
When the baby is young, a mother needs to take good care of her, making sure that her precious baby will be able to live on, day by day.
When the baby becomes a toddler, a mother has to explain why is she different from others.
When her baby goes to school for the first time, a mother has to stand by her side whenever the child got teased or bullied by other normal kids.
When her baby becomes an adult, a mother has to worry whether her baby will be able to find a life partner or even a job.
Some mothers may need to take good care of their disabled children until their children pass away at an old age.
I personally think that this little girl’s mother is very brave and strong hearted . Well, I believe all mothers will do the same thing. I suppose.
She was only 2 years old when her mother started to train her in using her own legs for daily activities. Now, with only 4 toes on her right foot, this little girl is able to write, sweep the floor, use telephone, surf the web and so on.
When she was 5 years old, the little girl’s uncle made her a special table and a wheel chair, which can be controlled using her own legs.
I have been thinking, if this little girl wasn’t born in this family. What will happen to her?
Will her mother abandon her?
Will she cry everyday hoping someone to love her?
Will she blame herself for her imperfections?
Will she blame anyone?
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Parents love to compare their children with other people’s children. They will scold their children for not being clever enough, not sporty enough, too naughty blah blah blah.
Did they ever realize how fortunate they are to have a healthy child?
It is the parents’ responsibility to take good care of a child.
You are the one who decides to bring your baby to this world, so please do love and cherish your baby.
Accept who he or she is, and shower them with love.
People have the tendency to make mistake..
In my case, I just made a silly, idiotic and intolerable mistake. Let’s just blame that I was really really in rush and my brain cells are not working accordingly.
Well, I tried to fix the problem. So let’s just hope that my opportunity won’t fly away due to my silly mistake. Pray that she could at least try to change the thing for me.
p/s: I saw Paul moss today, and I was running at that time..
pp/s: damn, this laptop got problem again!!! LCD is blinking again!!! Damn Toshiba, do you know how to fix it actually?
Met up with Jane for two days..
We had Dim Sum in the early morning. I told her that I feel so old because there are old people around us. And I couldn’t see anyone similar to our age.
Well, but I can see 2 china ladies with 2 local men having their breakfast. So I was thinking, did those guys ever go back home?
现在的我感觉到迷惑 , 无助，渺茫。。
光明的前途仿佛离我好远好远。。
怎么没人能明白我，
还是连我自己也不明白自己？
他们会否觉得我很没用？
一无是处？
永远就不能超越任何人。。
永远都活在自己小小的世界里。。
永远都达不到他人的要求。。
他们都说你会等到的。
机会总有一天会来临的。。
你得要耐心地等，等，等。。
可是，耐心毅力已经我而去。。
好想找知己谈谈我的想法，
可是他们都在为自己的未来或生活而繁忙着，
没有时间停下他们的伐步，
来听我多余的想法。
为什么我这么注重人家对我的看法？
为什么？
让人觉得我也可以？
让人觉得我并不是无能的？
让人觉得我也能闯出自己的一片天空？
还是，
他们都忘了我？
