女孩应该懂的：
1、一个女人如果第一眼就让男人想到性，那么她是很失败的。
2、当你从床上下来那一刻，你在他心中就开始贬值了。如果你把一切都给了现在的男友，那么，除了老公这个称呼你还能留给你未来的丈夫?
3、一个女人的品位在于她身边站着一个怎样品位的男人。女人一生最成功的事情之一，便是选了一个对的男人。
4、一个男人爱你的时候，你往往会感动于细节，同样，一个男人不爱你了，你也可以从细节中来发现。
5、想了解一个男人的好坏，先去看他身边是一群怎样的朋友。
6、女人的友情来的快，去的也快。其实男女感情远没有你跟姐妹的感情可靠，所以，珍惜你们之间的友情吧。
7、把买化妆品的钱去买两本好书，漂亮的容颜固然可以让人眼前一亮，丰富的内涵却能让人经久不忘。
8、虚伪的男人总倾向于喜欢你的容貌，真正的男人总倾向于爱你的内心。
9、男人没有你想象的那样好，可以真爱，但不要深爱，在爱情里为自己留个退路，否则受伤时会措手不及。
10、不要相信男人的甜言蜜语，面对喜欢的女孩时，不认识字的男人也会变成一个诗人。而诗人本来就不生活在现实中。
11、去发现一个有潜力的男人，往往比去傍大款更切合实际。并且你会更有成就感。
12、随时预防遇到色狼。必要时向他胯下踢，用力程度自己把握。
13、这个世界上，最值得你爱的，除了父母，只有你自己。
14、爱情不是追来的，所以，永远不要认为被男孩追是理所当然的。但是，你对他的考验是必须的。
15、当一个清高的女孩遇到一个高傲的男孩时，总有一个人会卑微下来，但是如果可以, 不要把自己放得太低。
16、在爱情里，永远不要抱怨什么。
17、爱情，是需要用心经营的。恋爱也是一门艺术.
男孩应该懂的：
1、如果，你不能给她一个美好的未来，那么，请不要把她哄上床。
2、不能做到的，就不要承诺。男人，膝下有黄金，嘴里也有黄金，不要轻易答应什么，因为你可能会食言
3、把她的地位放在游戏之上，毕竟她是那个肯能会陪你一辈子的人，游戏只是消遣罢了。。
4、你可以为了父母去教训自己的爱人，但是不能为了爱人去背弃自己的父母。如果她对你父母一直不好，那么她可以离开了。
5、如果不是生在帝王富贵家，那么找女朋友，不要只看重她的长相，而要学会欣赏她的内涵。你找伴侣，不是在找情人，而应该是在找妻子。。
6、一个成功的男人身边，需要一个相对优秀的女人。而这种优秀，与她的容貌无关，与她的内涵相连。
7、哥们，如果不擅长讨女孩欢心，那就去讨自己的未来欢心吧。男人，不是来征服女人的，而是来征服世界的。
8、你一生担负的责任很多，但最重要的是四个，对自己的父母负责，对自己的未来负责，对自己的女人和感情负责，对这个世界负责。
9、不要总想着玩弄感情，小心它有天会玩弄了你。
10、物以类聚，人以群分，这句话对男人很贴切。跟上进的人交朋友，跟有人生品位的人交朋友，你会获益很多。
11、这个世界上，最值得你爱的，除了父母，还有自己的女人和哥们，然后才是你自己。
12、爱情不是追来的。如果你死皮赖脸追求了很久，她却无动于衷，那么哥们，放下吧。有时，咱男人的尊严比一个女人更重要。。
2.24AM dec 11,2010
It is midnight, midnight blue didn’t strike today.
Here am I, lying on my bed while facing my laptop, writing this post.
Things happened during work; people get so frustrated with the job and started to giving up. Sometimes it’s like living in hell, with all the pressure putting against you. Being pushed vigorously, unlimited mails coming in, getting uncountable calls after work hours, being nag or even being blamed for nothing!
As what quote by one of my friend, “ I have been trying so hard yet I can’t see any improvement.”
Putting lots of exclamation marks to replace full stops at each sentence only show that you can’t manage your anger well. Being sarcastic seems to be a better and decent way to express your dissatisfaction.
I’ve learnt a lesson from a ‘fight’ through e mails. Yes, I am on the cc list. And I can see that, when someone is being pushed too hard, no matter how polite is that person, he or she will lose his or her temper.
Me: HI
Friend: HI, I hate XXX!!
Me: ( wanted to ask her things but put it aside first), why la.. don’t angry la.
Friend: XXX …….. ……,! ……!!....
Me; She is like that ma, don’t angry la.. take it as challenges..
Friend: If ……..!! scold…….,……,…..
That is when I saw the mails. This sentence appear in my mind..
Incredible! Someone actually has guts!!
Weirdest thing happened yesterday night.. You know I’m a light sleeper.. Any sound will effortlessly make me awake. So that’s the reason why I’m always so tired and sleepy..
During wee hour when I was sleeping soundly on my bed, I heard knocking sound from the door. I assume it is the wind blowing from outside which makes the door move and make such noise. Then I went to close the window.
But the sound still going on, very irritating and I can’t sleep. I close the window tightly again, and try to sleep.. of course sound is still there.. Then I remembered what my friend say about the ghost story.. It’s not creepy during that moment. It was anger that controlling me. So disturbing I can’t sleep!!
So I’m like scolding them in my mind la.. in case there are some living near us, we never know..
Noise continue..
I wake up, on the light and stares at the door for couple of minutes. Strange thing is, noise stop immediately when light is on.
I off the light and try go sleep again. And the noise comes back!!! I’ve tried 2 times and noise will stop only when I on the light. But I can’t sleep when the light is on. Damn it.
So I thought maybe this whole time the wind came from the balcony side. I stepped outside my room and close the balcony window. Of course, sounds still continue to disturb me.
I can’t take it anymore..
However, as clever as I am. ( cough). I take out the newspaper and put it at the crack between the door and its frame.
Noise eliminated.
Sleep tight.
The end.
